Even now things just seem to fall out of my mouth that come out the wrong way. You’re doing well to “withdraw” when you can’t be sure if your message will come out right ?

I definitely think it’s a plus. Society has made men feel like they should not talk about these things, that only girls do that. But internalising things is one of the reasons suicide rates are higher in men than women. So I hope more guys take a leaf from your book.

I’m glad it helps to know that others do understand what it’s like to have these things jump out of you before you realise that it will unintentionally hurt the other person.

thanks, you are so clear how it feels like when you know you cannot say it because then you will regret it…the worst thing is I can hurt the other, snd I then apologize. Nobody interested in understanding these type of tiny changes but it has been so important to understand how I react, and what the different feelings are..it takes time but it allows you to improve, helps all these type of information, thanks

Being able to express yourself is important, and I bet it feels like a weight off your shoulders now.

Wow I love the home truths that you have dispensed! Shame some people couldn’t handle it. At least people don’t have to try to second guess what you might be thinking.

That’s brilliant! Glad people in your life are taking it as a positive.