Mindfulness in 4 easy steps. Regain balance.

My mind would run at a thousand miles an hour and it was exhausting. I think after my trauma I was trying to look out for danger everywhere and attempting to control everything. I remember walking down an aisle in Sainsbury’s and feeling the to need to read every sign and product name. Of course that’s ridiculous and impossible unless you’re there all day.

The information was too much and it was such an overload, and I don’t know even what I was trying to achieve.  But that was my approach to everything whether I liked it or not.


Jo from Headway started a group where one of the activities she went through was to teach us about mindfulness meditation. I’d a couple of times in the past tried sitting cross legged like a Buddha, but never felt I was doing it right so I thought I probably wouldn’t do much better with this. But I was wrong.


Jo was ready for the preconceived ideas we had about meditation and explained how mindfulness is different, and that you don’t need to be spiritual to feel the benefits.

Anyone can do mindfulness meditation and you don’t have to spend a long time doing it either.

Firstly you just need to sit comfortably in a chair with your feet flat to the floor and sit upright with your back supported. So much easier than doing it on the floor! And with my weak left leg I probably wouldn’t have managed to get up once I was down there. So this was a good start.

I’d always thought you have to try to clear your mind thus why I thought I always failed. But Jo explained your mind is supposed to think so let it, just don’t be judgemental. Notice the thoughts that come, don’t categorise them as good or bad, right or wrong, just notice them and let them move on. I know what your thinking, “this sounds impossible, how do I not judge things?” But it’s easier than you think.

Brain injury survivors benefit from mindfulness

Mark Williams, professor of clinical psychology at the Oxford Mindfulness Centre, part of Oxford University’s department of psychiatry, calls a “direct knowing of what is going on inside and outside ourselves, moment by moment”.

I found this really helped me feel less anxious helped me feel more calm. Also it’s good for improving your cognitive abilities and concentration levels. Great for everyone, but especially for those with a brain injury. So give it a go, here it is in 5 easy steps:

  1. Sit in comfortably upright in a chair with your feet flat on the floor
  2. Tune in to your breathing. Follow the breath as the air comes in through the nose and down your chest, and its journey back out. Is it warmer coming out?
  3. Notice thoughts, acknowledge them and return your focus to your breathing.
  4. Don’t judge yourself for being distracted, but go back to noticing your breathing.
  5. You can start with just 10 minutes a day. We all have busy lives but give yourself that, you deserve it.


Have a go and let me know how you get on. Does it work for you?






2 Replies to “Mindfulness in 4 easy steps. Regain balance.”

  1. I am so interested in meditation but I just haven’t been able to get into it. Tried waking up 20 mins before my kids, they started waking up 20 mins earlier. And so my alarm’s then set to get me up 20 mins earlier again, and once again so are they! Might try again when it’s darker and I can be more stealth.

    You may well have come across both these but, coincidentally, I’ve read a book by your same Mark Williams, which I found absolutely fascinating (http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/11281104-mindfulness) and highly recommend. Comes with a series of downloadable meditations (of which I have done none!). Also, in terms of scientific assessment of how it can affect the brain’s functions, I again found this BBC Breakfast feature which is now on the Oxford Mindfulness YouTube page so interesting (http://youtu.be/sMsUGB_KV7s).

    1. Thank you Anna, sorry for the slow reply, for some reason your comment went into spam instead of approval. Anyway I’m going to check those out, thanks for the tip.

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